LOVE SAYINGS & ROMANCE QUOTES

Adam Archer asked:


Love is…patient and kind. How can we say we love someone if we get easily frustrated and treat them with disrespect?

Love is…rejoicing in the truth. Is it possible to love someone and deliberately lie to them?

Love is…bearing all things. That means putting up with each other’s faults. No one is perfect. Love is…believing all things. It doesn’t mean we have doubt about someone. We should be able to take what someone says at face value. It is trust.

Love is…hopeful in all things. It’s knowing that everything will work out for the best. Love is…enduring. That means it puts up with the little things that drive us crazy. Love is…never failing.

Love is real when it can stand up to all these things. It looks for the best in others and brings these things out.

True love can stand the test of time. Being with someone for a long period of time allows you to go through different emotions and periods with that person. If your heart has the strength to weather through these different experiences with your lover, then both you and the relationship will grow stronger.

Love doesn’t mean that your lover has the responsibility to keep you happy and vice versa.

The only person who has the responsibility to make you happy is yourself. While you and your lover can make each other “happier”, you shouldn’t be solely dependent on each other for happiness. The couples who end up being happy together are made up of individuals who were happy to begin with. Keeping yourself happy is a hard enough responsibility, don’t make it harder for yourself by letting another person’s happiness be your responsibility too.

Love is sublime. Love gives power. Love gives determination. In love, many lovers do what they could never dream of.

Empires have been sacrificed for love. Battles have been fought for love. Love has ruled mankind since ages. Those who experience love are truly lucky. Real love is supportive. Love yourself, love your dream, love your mission, love your life, and surely enough, a wonderful person will show up and love you even more.

Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel.

Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action - true love.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. …

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

Love is friendship set on fire.” - unknown

“Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing.” - Goethe

“To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia.” - H.L. Mencken

Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside.” - Margaret Walker

“Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale… Love loves; this is its nature.” Howard

Thurman “Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end.” - Anonymous

“Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.” - Rainer Maria Rilke

“Where love is, no room is too small.” - Talmud

“Loves makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.” - Zora Neale Hurston “Love is the irresistible

desire to be irresistibly desired.” - Mark Twain

First and foremost focus on yourself. Your dreams, your goals, your truth. Somebody who really loves you will love you even more if you are being your true self. Someone who cannot love you when you follow your excitement is not worth being loved by you! If your husband is angry with you because you take time to achieve your goals, then he is not supportive.

If your wife is jealous because you have success and she doesn’t, then that is her problem. Don’t lose yourself, and your love will last. Focus on the reason why YOU are here on earth, make your mission the first priority in your life, and you will be loved for WHO you are.

This is real love. Real love is supportive. Love yourself, love your dream, love your mission, love your life, and surely enough, a wonderful person will show up and love you even more. What you are able to give to yourself, you will get back thousandfold from the outside world. If you are already in the energy of love, by simply loving yourself, then you will attract love from outside into your life. Make love last by loving yourself first. Love Love Love…

KeyWestgal asked:


I watched the Oprah show one day and she showed a bed and breakfast place that had a nice quote painted on the wall above a master bed. Do any of you have a nice quote that would be fitting for above a bed for a couple starting out in life with a new relationship? I have also seen neat ideas in Pottery Barn of painting a monogrammed type look of initals behind a master bed. Thank you.

Peter J Granger asked:


The sad truth is that most of us fall in love for the wrong reason. We bring a partner into our lives to fulfil our need for love, and it is this outward focus that creates all our problems. What we really do is ‘fall in need’, rather than ‘fall in love’. This creates a dependence on our partners - we rely on their presence in our lives, to make us happy. As I discovered in my marriage, this near total dependence on another person was a recipe for disaster. I suffered so much when my wife left me because I had to face the emptiness and lack of self-love within me. Although I was completely unaware of it at the time, that emptiness had been there long before I met my wife. If you have ever suffered the agony of losing somebody close to you, then you have experienced those feelings of dependency. I have seen many people repeatedly fall in love and lose it again until they become cynical about romantic relationships and give up on relationships all together. The problem is that when this happens they also give up on life as well.

There is another way of looking at love that takes us in a healing direction. Although our romantic relationships may begin for all the wrong reasons, we must not become cynical about them because they show us the true nature of love and can help us to reveal the real us. As we fall in love we see our potential for successful relationships and for a life full of love. In the honeymoon phases of a relationship we see only the best in our partners and feel really good about ourselves. The truth is that we don’t have to restrict these feelings to the start of a relationship - we could be this happy and fulfilled at any moment in our lives.

To see how this might be, let’s look at the process of falling in love in a more positive way. Can you remember what it felt like when you fell in love? Think back to those heady days when you couldn’t stop thinking about your partner. Do you remember how perfect he or she seemed, how totally in tune they were with you and how connected you felt? You probably spent hours looking into each others eyes, talking endlessly and making love with wild abandon. It was all so easy.

It was this way because you allowed yourself to fall in love - during that time you let go of all your fears and negative ideas about yourself and the world. You opened yourself up to all the love that was available. You poured love on your partner and they poured love on you. Crucially you also received each other’s love without question. These romantic experiences show you what it is like to be free of our fear and insecurity and experience your true capacity for love and joy in a committed relationship.

The key to understanding what happens when you fall in love is to recognize that nothing new comes to you. The love was waiting beneath your fear and negative self-beliefs and it showed up when you let them go. When you fell in love it seemed that your partner was making you feel happy but what really happened was that you gave yourself permission to be happy. In that moment you made a subconscious choice to feel good. It is critically important in your understanding of relationships to appreciate that, no matter how much love your partner gave you when you fell in love, the good feelings were already present in you, before you met. The romantic process simply allowed you to access your natural capacity for love. What’s really exciting about understanding love in this way, is that you can find it again at any point in your life, without depending on another person’s presence or behavior.

As you can see, when we understand love in this way it transforms our relationships and our lives. Suddenly we realize that love isn’t an emotion that comes and goes - it is a description of our very essence. Love is who we are.

This profoundly different understanding of love explains so much about our romantic experiences and about life itself. We realise that our positive experiences within relationships are not determined by the amount of love we are given by another person but by the amount of love we can embrace - the amount that we can reveal our loving essence. Of course it is wonderful to find somebody who loves us, but this is valueless if we are unable to receive it. When we or our partner has low self-esteem, we do not know ourselves as love, and it is in this situation that fear and anxiety fills the void. We just won’t let ourselves feel love or be loved.

If we are honest, few of us believe that we are 100% complete when it comes to love. Even if we find somebody to love us and temporally fulfill our need, this does nothing to heal the underlying low self-esteem. It makes us dependent and highly vulnerable to loss in the future. Our neediness for love becomes very unattractive and through all manner of negative behaviors, we drive our partners away. The irony is that we have gone out into the world to find something that we have had all along! Of course, the key question to ask is why we would ever deny our true, loving identity. It seems crazy that we would turn away from something that is so life-enhancing. The astonishing truth is that we turn away from love because we are afraid of it.

When it comes to love, we are our own worst enemies! It is time to recognize our fear of love and intimacy and to begin to embrace it more fully in our lives. To do this we must dismantle the self-imposed barriers to the love that is waiting for us beneath our fear. The rewards will be extraordinary.

bakura1980 asked:


Hello. my boyfriend and i have been dating for a while and it seems like the level of romance has fizzled. We still like each other, but it just seems like there’s no more passion. Any suggestions on how to get it back? Any help would be much appreciated.

When you are in a relationship it is not always easy to keep the romance going. Too many people find that their relationship is lacking romance in a big way but they don’t know how to change that. It is not as hard as you may think to come up with adult romantic ideas that you can choose to try. So here are some romance ideas to help you.

There are so many adult romance ideas that you can choose to try. You just have to pick the romance idea that seems right for you. If it turns out to be the wrong one then try another idea until you have found the one that puts the most romance back into your relationship.

One: Play a game that will allow you to have fun with your partner and that requires touching such as twister. Not only will this make you feel like a kid again but it will also be something that you can do at any time to help rekindle your romance.

Two: Get dressed up really nice and have a quiet, relaxing dinner at home. Set a romantic table with some candles and wine. Enjoy a quiet dinner and then do some slow dancing with your partner.

Three: One of the good adult romance ideas that you can have a lot of fun with is to find an adult romance game to play. There are many tasteful romantic games that you and your partner will enjoy. You can find them online or in a local store near you.

Four: How about writing a romance book with your partner. You can spend your evening remembering how you met and fell in love. Write it down and you will have your own romance book. You can even take it to your local printer to get it bound so you can keep it far into the future. This is a great way to spend a romantic, fun evening and you will have a keepsake that you and your partner can pull out and reminisce about at any time. You could even show your kids this keepsake so they know your romance story.

Five: Do what you used to do when you first met your partner. Get some takeout food, go home and have fun feeding each other. Then when your meal is done you can start making out like you did when you first got together. If you have kids then this will remind you of what it was like before kids came into the picture.

These are obviously not all of the adult romance ideas that you can choose to use. They are romance ideas that will allow you and your partner to rekindle the romance in your relationship. Romance doesn’t have to hard to do. It just takes a little imagination and some time.



By: KV Chaudhary

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winkerperson asked:


This question popped out of my Science homework so if you think you know the answer just post it. I need the answer because I have no idea what the relationship is.

JaniceHope asked:

This is a compilation of all scenes from the L-Word fourth season of relationship of Paige Sobel (Kristanna Loken) and Shane McKutcheon (Kate Moennig) [Shane/Paige]. This is the 4th part.

Gun asked:


What are some advantages and disadvantages of dating and being in a relationship with a woman who is a feminist?
Are there any advantages at all?

JaniceHope asked:

This is a compilation of all scenes from the L-Word fourth season of relationship of Paige Sobel (Kristanna Loken) and Shane McKutcheon (Kate Moennig) [Shane/Paige]. This is the 1st Part.

Joe asked:


What is the relationship between JIT and the business processes of purchasing goods and services in a company?

JIT = Just In Time (with reference to just in time delivery)

Easy 10 points for somebody who knows. Cheers.