Thu 26 Mar 2009
Love Quotes, Inspirational Quotes, Famous Quotes, Romance
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psychetruth asked:
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i’d hit it
Or a man and a man and a woman and a woman too! Isn’t this sentimental…
by the way this concept of love just started to exist hundreds of years ago….. human beings are since at least for 30 000 years .I mean where he has our actual body…. but ancestors are here for millions of years but that’ s another story…
i guess all i should really do is look within and regain the purity that eradicates all problems love comes from you within it is not an external thing
but speaking from my experience with the “true love” purity from childhood thats how i want to live the rest of my life in that loving light because back then was perfect the only reason my life is not “complete” is because i have no pure love anymore
shouldn`t the way we love our family be the way we treat each other the reason childhood was so great was because your family gave you the love to get through it i know this doesnt count for everybody some parents abuse thier children and stuff but
i guess for now a hug from my mother is the closest thing to true love i could ever find
i wanted love to feel complete but now i see i could`ve fallen straight into the trap of life i could`ve ended up like one of these average fools no offence now but thats how it is,and that really is not me i guess ill wait until i find the right person with the right thinking style
i`ve never been in a relationship simply because i dont understand the way others use it “love” everyone just has sex and gets anotehr boyfriend of girlfriend the only way i realate to love is that of family love the true love you talked about
i think i like you my friend thanks so much fo the extremly detailed explanation to be honest i dont understand sex and what you say about women hiding sex in the name of love is very true and i have noticed this alot also the appearance part i can relate too
the thing is that I’m not sure true love does exist,after all this in mind…
With all this in mind I asked this question:”Does (true) love exist or is it just moral cover up for physical intimacy (sex) ?
PS: True love doesn’t take, he gives. Wanting something is wanting to take something.
True love is unconditional.
well.. it seems that all is about physical attraction.
if you look a relationship with 2 partners : we have all this behaviors, activities which are meant to sustain the relashionship : discussion, date, gift, kiss, hug, activities of any kind etc so the emotionnal state is maintained with all this things and then you have sex wich is the highlight of the relation, where the emotionnal state is at its best…
So you notice that the relashionship turn around this particular moment which is sex
There ’s this average guy who put his photo on “online dating” he get few replys from girls who seems to be interested and then change his photo; he put a model fashion male foto, and you know what ? almost 180 replys from women in 1 day who says ” wow you are perfectly the soul mate I ‘m looking for” even those women who were interested by him with his old foto ( average guy) didn’t recognise him and say him: ” you have traits of soul mate I want!”
I’ ve read in a article psychologic (french)that with women “love” seems to be a cover up for sex… because this word is more “acceptable” and moral from a woman than with a man…
If “true love” is so obvious why do you see often this question everywhere “Does true love exist ?” maybe because it is just a hormonal stuff… need for procreation we hide behind this word “love”.
“Love creates activity in the same area of the brain that hunger, thirst, and drug cravings create activity in. New love, therefore, could possibly be more physical than emotional. Over time, this reaction to love mellows, and different areas of the brain are activated, primarily ones involving long-term commitments. Dr. Andrew Newberg, a neuroscientist, suggests that this reaction to love is so similar to that of drugs because without love, humanity would die out.”
By the way I’ ve read this:Studies have shown that brain scans of those in infatuated by love display a resemblance to those with a mental illness.
But in this case the word “Love” is misused, we should I think use words like affection, tenderness, altruism, friendship, attachment etc.. because “Love” is a vague word.
“Love” is just an abstract concept, it does not exist
With ” love” we just trying to complete ourselves but this is not ” True Love” which I think is supposed to be more pure and here it appear like a need we have to fulfill.
I’m talking here about “love” in a romantical relashionship which is likely to be a kind of “Self interest” as I explained.
“Love” towards your family, friends, is more likely to be closed to “true love” which is selfless.
alcoholic would become sober easily, bad tempered people would become peaceful easily etc….
It’ s not so easy to change you know.
Look at this world, do you think “love” exist ? mmm?
All I can say is love is not supposed to destroy, is not supposed to ask anything from anyone.We ( people) or many of us, want to fall in love because of the fear to be alone, we feel imcomplete. Why ? It seems that we ‘ ve been” programmed” like that
This is a common scenario, so you notice that the partners seem to look after this empowering feeling, emotion of “Love” wich become an addiction.
By the way we usually hear something like that: ” you changed, it is not possible between us….” again this is not true what changed is not the partner but the emotionnal state ” love” which ‘ s just run out….. the one who says that is not honnest toward oneself …….. people does not change so easily otherwise ….
You might say: ” no I take care about my partner, I like who he or she is , I’ m not selfish !”. Of course you look after your partner because he or she is the object of your ” love” .
That’ s why many romantical relashionship end after 18 months or 2 years, the honeymoon time, because this emotion run out, then you get: ” oh honey, I don’ t feel love for you anymore” - ” oh I feel that way too, bye” and they go for another relashionship again and again.
I take care of my dog, too
Love” is such an extensive word. It’ s just a cover up for sex or physical attraction. The word ” love ” is more moral and accepted by many system of ethic.
Few people will admit this and I understand, by the way ” love” implies this notion of pleasure :” I love chocolate”.
We want to be in love because of the flow of energy which empowers ourselves, which gives this feeling of “being alive”, we are attracted by this emotional state.
“Love ” is selfish
i dont understand your question can you explain ?